We grieve what we love. It’s that simple and that difficult. If we do not love something, we may be bummed or disappointed. When we grieve the loss of something deeply meaningful? It’s excruciating pain. We wonder if it is possible to keep going. When we allow ourselves to experience the deepest love we can imagine, we are opening up ourselves for the most hurtful pain and suffering. We can’t have intense love without potentially exposing ourselves to the most hurtful pa

In the last 48-hours, I have been lazy, spent too much time scrolling on my phone, withheld information from Hubby Rick and thought about things that should have me run right out of town. I have spoken negatively about someone else, told white lies, gossiped and portrayed myself more highly than I ought. I have withheld forgiveness, wanted to draw attention to myself unnecessarily and avoided helping someone that I had the opportunity to assist. I am not a perfect Christi

When asked what we desire for our loved ones, the most common answer is: “That they are happy.” This is a good answer. A noble answer. Yet happiness can be overrated. Happiness happens in the moment. It’s positive thoughts that may or may not be long-lasting. Our happiness can be here today and quickly gone tomorrow and is often based on what most recently happened in our life. Personally, I believe contentment is where the rubber hits the road. Contentment has a long

How many times have you offered to help … and there is crickets? You’ve offered to help but there’s no follow through. Or the request just seem to fit into what you are interested in. Well, today, I have a very specific request for you. And I hope a few of you will help out.

Over time, I’ve thought about how I might condense grief into just a few words. This is really quite impossible. There’s just too much with grief. Grief is never a nice linear progression from one stage to the next. Nope, it’s a shift back and forth through a whole bunch of emotions and feelings. Because grief is so unique for each person, doling out hard-and-fast interpretations are risky. Yet sometimes thinking of something in easy-to-remember terms is so helpful. That’